Terrence James "Terry" Alexander
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Terrence James "Terry" Alexander, 73, of East Fallowfield, passed away on Friday, February 4th, 2022 at his home. He was the beloved husband of Debra Barr-Alexander, with whom he shared 33 years of marriage.
Born in Coatesville, Terry was the son of the late Phyllis (Nethery) Alexander. After graduating high school, Terry joined the US Army in 1965. He went on to serve in the NATO Force in Germany and in Vietnam. Terry was discharged having obtained the rank of Sgt. and Tank Commander. He was awarded two Purple Heart medals.
Upon his discharge, he worked at Millprint Co. in Downingtown for 14 years. He graduated from Goldey-Beacom College in 1977 with a degree in Business Administration after having made both the Dean's List and President's List.
In 1981, Terry joined the Coatesville Police Dept. where he served for 23 years, serving as Chief of Police from 1996 until 1997. In 1988, he was promoted to the rank of Police Sergeant. He then worked at the Veteran's Administration Police Dept for 17 years, earning the rank of Captain and Lieutenant. Terry was a patriot who loved serving the United States and its people.
Terry was a freemason and was a member of Brandywine Goddard Lodge #383 of Coatesville, and a 32nd degree in Reading Lodge of Perfection and the Scottish Rite.
He enjoyed watching the news, riding his Harley Wide Glide, keeping his yard and pool pristine, eating scallops and teriyaki noodles, and drinking WAWA coffee. He enjoyed eating a weekly breakfast with his granddaughter, Julianna, who he affectionally called, "Baby Girl."
Terry is survived, in addition to his wife, by his children, Tina Thomas, Timothy Alexander, and Chris Alexander; stepson, Joseph Zazo and stepdaughter, Jennifer Kofroth, and husband John; 14 grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; and siblings, Bonnie Stringer, Richard Alexander and Dennis Alexander, husband of Mary.
The Funeral Service will be held on Friday, February 11th, 2022 at 2:30 PM at Wilde Funeral Home, 434 Main St., Parkesburg, followed by interment at Hopewell Methodist Cemetery in Downingtown. The viewing will be held from 1 PM to 2:15 PM, with a Masonic Service beginning at 2:15 PM.
Online condolences can be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com
Condolences
Terrence Alexander
Dear Debbie, what a truly wonderful tribute to Terry. Remember all the good times the two of you shared. I will remember all the trouble we got into as kids, oh the stories I could tell. We all had a hard upbringing but we all succeeded in our lives. Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.
Dearest Debbie, I am so sorry
Dearest Debbie, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. Although I never knew your husband personally, he seemed like a wonderful man who accomplished much in his lifetime and enjoyed life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.
Love, HUGS and Prayers
Proverbs 3:5-6
Denise (Coates)
Condolences
Dear Deb, Sending my deepest condolences to you for the loss of your husband. Prayers and thoughts to both you and the rest of your family. I know how deep your love was and how deep your pain must be. May God comfort and give you strength. Hugs.
MY CONDOLENCES AND PRAYERS TO
MY CONDOLENCES AND PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY OF A BROTHER MASON. KARL F. SCHUBERT OXFORD LODGE 353
Sending love, thoughts, and
Sending love, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family.May the special memories you made together help you through this difficult time.
love Sissy
My Deepest Sympathies
My deepest sympathies on your loss. David Marciniszyn and Family
Debbie and family,
Debbie and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Terry's passing. I have known him since we were kids. He was a very sweet guy and will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Judi and Dave
I’m so sorry Debbie and family
I’m am so sorry.
Debbie I will never forget how kind you and Terry were to me, you both told me your home was always open to me. I will never forget that.
sending all my love to you and the family
Sorry to hear of Terry’s passing.
Debbie and family, Heaven has gained another angel I’m sorry for your loss I’ll be keeping you in my prayers
Dear Debbie
Elaine and I were very surprised to hear of Terry's passing. I always enjoyed talking with Terry as a friend and neighbor and as I sit here groping for words to say I'm wishing I had gotten to know him better during the years that we were neighbors. I know Debbie, that God will give you the strength you need to get you through the coming days. Don't dwell on the loss though I know it is great, instead dwell on the good and happy times you shared together.
Terrence Alexander
Dear Debby, Nothing I can say will make the sadness easier to cope with. I simply want to let you know how sorry I am and I am thinking of you at this sad time. "AND THEN I HEARD THE ANGELS SAY...HE'S WITH YOU EVERYDAY.....Debby, thank you for being in his life for 33 years. Terry is with our HEAVENLY FATHER NOW AND AT PEACE.
Debby So very sorry for the
Debby So very sorry for the loss of your loving husband Terry. As you know Terry and I were friends for 60 years and we have had our fun and did crazy things but he was always a honest gentleman with respect to everyone. He also was a changed man when he found you to fulfill his life. He loved you and your children like his own. He was so proud of his granddaughter Julze. Prayers to you and your family and Terry will be watching over you all and wanting you to enjoy your life. Bill Sharp
Deb, I’m so sorry for your
Deb, I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Terry was a wonderful person.
Kerri Stauffer
dear Debbie
Dear Debbie, We are so sorry to hear of Terry's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nick and Veronica Pulinka DiFerdinando
Sincere condolences
Dear Debbie - Our heartfelt condolences on the passing and loss of Terry. He was a really wonderful guy and I have many great memories of working with him all those years ago in Coatesville. He was fun to be around and we are glad to see that you shared a long and happy life together. Please take good care.
Sincerely, Dominick & Lori Braccio
My Pop
Everyday I miss you more and more. Everyone knows you were loved so deeply by those who were actually around you throughout your tough times. Things might’ve gotten hard but Mom-Mom never stopped caring and loving you to your fullest. I may be only 16 but my grandfather has just passed and I feel that it is my right to speak on the untrue things being said. My Mom-Mom never once stopped caring for him, medically, mentally, and physically. My Pop was never neglected in any way, shape, or form. The people speaking these untrue things haven’t been in their life for years, never even called when times were bad for him. All I’m asking is to please send positive messages to my grandmother at this time, and that if you were not around at all to see how things were ran here, do not speak negatively about it. Thank you and Pop, may you rest in peace. I love you forever.
Love, Pop’s Baby Girl.
Dear Deb,So sorry for the
Dear Deb,So sorry for the loss of your husband.I know you loved him with all your heart.My prayers are with you and your family.~Kathy Quinn
Condolences
Dear Deb,
So sorry to hear of Terry’s passing. He was a good fun guy, I always enjoyed working in Caln when he was working in Coatesville. We played a few tricks on each other while passing the time on midnight. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim Franciscus
Deepest Sympathy
Dear Debbie, So sorry for your loss. Brings back memories of my days working in the district courts. Keep good memories close to your heart. RIP Terry.
God is our refuge and strength.
So sorry to hear of Terry's
So sorry to hear of Terry's passing. I worked with him over the years he was with the Coatesville PD. A great guy.
Condolences
My sincere condolences. My father was Harry W. Alexander. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you
Thank you everyone for your kind words and sincere thoughts. Love to you all, Debby.
Your love and care for Terry
Dear Deb, Your loyal, caring and devoted love for your husband is truly an honour to him. You did all that you could for him and he knew. :) l pray you will have peace and rest soon as you are tended to by your loving family. Terry will be missed. Susan Battaglia
Sincerest sympathies!
Dear Debby, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved Terry. I'm praying for you all and may he rest in eternal peace! God bless you all! 🙏🏻❤️
Sincerely,
Debbie
I am so sorry. I worked at
I am so sorry. I worked at the Coatesville Police Department when Terry was chief. He was such a awesome person. Prayers for all the family. May God comfort you.
I knew Terry and his family
I knew Terry and his family many years ago, on N. 5th. Ave. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family. Darlene Tillman Romanosky
Our deepest sympathy
Dear Deb,
Terri and I always admired and respected Terry as our neighbor and friend. The loss of your lifelong companion must be great. We are glad to have gotten to know Terry a little over the years and enjoyed watching him drive by the house on his purple Harley! We pray that the God of all grace will comfort your hearts, helping you to reflect upon the many years, challenges and joys you shared with Terry. His quiet confidence and kind heart will surely be missed.
Fondly,
Tim and Terri Zietz
So very sorry. I will miss
So very sorry. I will miss seeing you all for 'nail trimming with 'Cujo'. Rest Easy, Sir.