Thomas John Shaw

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Jun 10 1974
Oct 27 2015
41 Years
New Castle, DE

Thomas John Shaw, 41, of New Castle, DE, died on Tuesday, October 27, 2015 in West Sadsbury Twp., Chester County as a result of an auto accident. He was the beloved husband of Shanna Leigh Wilson Shaw, with whom he shared 12 years of marriage. Born in Coatesville, he was the son of Ethel Jean Haws Shaw of New Castle, DE and the late John L. Shaw. 

Tom was a 1992 graduate of the Octorara Area High School. He was employed, for over 20 years, by United Distributors of Delaware. 

He is survived, in addition to his wife, by one son Zachary T. Shaw and two sisters; Elizabeth Corle of Modena and Roseanne Pyott-Shaw of Coatesville and many nieces, nephews and friends. 

Memorial services will be held on Saturday, November 7, 2015 at 11am from the Parkesburg United Methodist Church, 411 Main St, Parkesburg, PA 19365.  Visitation at the church from  from 9:30 until 11 AM.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made directly to the Wilde Funeral Home, 434 Main St. Parkesburg, PA 19365 to help defray funeral expenses. 

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Wilde Funeral Home of Parkesburg, PA  Online condolences can be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com  

Service Date: 
Nov 8 2015 - 10:59am

Condolences

To the families of TJ, I am very sorry for your loss. TJ was a great son, brother, father, husband and friend. He will be missed greatly. I will always remember our childhood. Rest in peace my friend, rest in peace.

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Uncle Tj

You were the best uncle anybody could ask for. Things will never be the same without you but I know your watching over all of us. I cannot express how much I love you.. You were my favorite ginger and I was yours. Nobody will understand the bond we had. Rest easy Uncle T. I love you more than anything. 

All my love, Nae

 

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I am lost for words. You were such a great husband, father, son, uncle, brother and friend. You are gonna be so deeply missed. You were such a hugh part of my life for 20 years ( yes you put up with me for that long!) we all created such good memories that I will hold onto forever. I love you Shanna and Zach. My heart goes out to Shanna and T's family. Rest in peace T.                                                                        

 

Nichole  

 

 

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We lost a good friend and co-worker. He will be greatly miss.My condolences to the family from our family.

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I am lost for words. You were such a great husband, father, son, uncle, brother and friend. You are gonna be so deeply missed. You were such a huge part of my life for 20 years ( yes you put up with me for that long!) we all created such good memories that I will hold onto forever. I love you Shanna and Zach. My heart goes out to Shanna and T's family. Rest in peace T.                                                                        

 

Nichole  

 

 

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I had the extreme pleasure to work with Tommy at United Distributors for 5 years. He was a great friend and co-worker always made the work day enjoyable always upbeat no matter how much he hurt within. I was and still am glad to call him my friend I hadn't worked with him for a couple years now but we alway stayed in contact through Facebook and Words with Friends. He was a very funny jokester and made the work day enjoyable considering the way the company treated us employees. I am so glad that our paths crossed and I got to know him Rest in Peace my friend we will meet again

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So very sorry for everyone's loss yet another great person who left us all way to soon.
It Seems like just yesterday we were in school together. Tom,was a great guy who always had a grin on his face still remember our conversations on what Chrysler would beat what Ford product.. Rest in peace my friend till we meet again may you watch over all of us from above.

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I'm so sorry for everyone's loss. You all will be kept in my loving thoughts during this time.

Love and hugs

Your Cousin,
Dawn Grasso (Rhinier)

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To the family of T J,  I would like to take this time to send my condolences to the family of T J. I was at a loss for words when I received the news of T J's passing. It is so hard to say goodbye to a loved one. I remember T J as a small boy who lived across the street from me. He used to play with my two sons. The last time I saw him was at my oldest son's Funeral Service last year. I know what his family is going through, and only by the grace of God you can get past your sorrow. You have to remember all the good times you had with T J. And may God be with you at this time.

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Dear Shanna, Zach &Family, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Your Hubby, but from all the good things I've heard  from Your  posts on fb, he seems like he was a great Husband & Father... I just wanted to letvYou know I'm very sorry for Your Loss& I'm thinking of You& if there's anyway, I can be of any help, please let me know... Cori Foltz

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Dear Shanna, Zach &Family, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Your Hubby, but from all the good things I've heard  from Your  posts on fb, he seems like he was a great Husband & Father... I just wanted to letvYou know I'm very sorry for Your Loss& I'm thinking of You& if there's anyway, I can be of any help, please let me know... Cori Foltz

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Dear Shanna, Zach &Family, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Your Hubby, but from all the good things I've heard  from Your  posts on fb, he seems like he was a great Husband & Father... I just wanted to letvYou know I'm very sorry for Your Loss& I'm thinking of You& if there's anyway, I can be of any help, please let me know... Cori Foltz

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We are so sorry to hear about Tom. We remember him in school and at the bowling alley always smiling. He will be missed by many. Our thoughts n prayers are with your family.aA

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mDear Shanna, I'm so deeply sorry for you and Zack's loss. Losing a love one has to be so tragic I can't even image how you must feel. I never had the opportunity to meet TJ but through all that has been said about him, he must have been a wonderful loving husband and father. I will continue to pray for you and zack.  

 

 

 

 

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Uncle Tj

Uncle T....you were the realist man I knew...you were the definition of family.  Even when everything was going wrong you knew what to say or do to make it go right....like when I was super young letting us know that no matter what family went through you and family was always there like, making us tie our hand behind our backs with socks and tie our shirts up and run into one another with our bellies out, or in the corner with our our hands out and holding 3-4 phone books at a time cuz we wouldn't go to sleep or stop laughing. The hot rod shows we used to go to in York, PA . Haha, you were beyond an amazing man. When you used to talk about alcohol and what's the good kind to get or not. When we had the summer party at your house and I got the drunkest and you wouldn't stop picking on me. When I woke up not know what happened, but you knew everything. Ill always cherish what kind of relationship we had. The relationship you had with all of your nieces and nephews. Thomas John, you left us with an amazing woman Shanna, I remember my 1st birthday. Meeting her, not knowing she would also mean the world to this family. You guys were soulmates from the start. Uncle TJ, you left us with Zach. The greatest athletic boy I know, he will get far in life knowing that you left him with the ability to never give up. Thank you for being the glue to this family. You were beyond amazing, and there's no way we will ever forget about you. I love you more then you'll ever know Uncle Tj. Thank you for being an important impact of my life. Ill never forget anything you taught me. 

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