Darlene T. Miller
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Darlene T. Miller, 51, departed from this life on Monday, October 19, 2009.
She was the beloved wife of Arnold M. Miller with who 23 years of marriage was shared. Born in Coatesville, Pa., on August 13, 1958, the daughter of the late Eleanor Cooper-Dixon and Eugene Dixon.
Darlene attended Octorara Area High School graduating in 1976. She also obtained a degree from Gordon Phillips Beauty School.
Darlene truly "Loved The Lord" and was a life long member of Bethany A.M.E. Church in Parkesburg, Pa., where she faithfully served on the Steward and Trustee Boards, the "Voice of Praise" Church Choir, the Missionary Board, as Church School Superintendent and Teacher, Church Clerk, Youth and Praise Dance Director, and numerous other activities and committees.
At the time of her passing she was employed at Catholic Health Initiatives in Exton, Pa., as Facilities Manager, with a wonderful group of individuals that she regarded highly.
She had a Sweet Holy Spirit which she lavished on her family! Darlene is survived by her daughter Tyiesha Miller and her cherished grandchildren whom she loved dearly, Brian, Demetria and Demetrius. Also her sister, Roban Cooper-Hines and husband Carl, Jr., a brother Darryl Dixon, two nephews, Carl Hines, III and Nathan Cooper.
She was predeceased by a brother Sgt. P. Johnathan Cooper and a sister Antoinette Blagmon.
Dearest Darlene will be greatly missed and fondly remembered by a host of other Family Members and Friends.
The Memorial Service will be held on Friday, October 23, 2009 at 11 a.m. at the Bethany A.M.E. Church, 405 Green St. Parkesburg, PA.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Darlene's memory to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, 2141 Rosecrans Ave - Suite 7000, El Segundo, CA 90245
Arrangements have been entrusted to the Wilde Funeral Home of Parkesburg. Online condolences may be posted at www.wildefuneralhome.com
Condolences
Darlene, was such a lovely
Darlene, was such a lovely person and a true woman of God, she loved her family so much. I have known Darlene for years and she was always a kind and fun person. Darlene will be missed. Family may you find comfort in the fact that she is now with God. I will keep you in my prayers for the days ahead may the love of God be your encourgement in these trying times.
God Bless
Gale Walls
Downingtown
Loss of Darlene
Dear Arnold, family and friends of Darlene,
Sending thoughts and prayers to surround your broken hearts. While Darlene is at peace, I know your hearts ache missing her. I hope it helps that so many people care and feel free to let us know anything that can be done to ease your burden.
Peace to you all.
Always and All Ways,
Lisa Cole (coworker of Arnold Miller)
With our deepest sympathy
There are no words that can explain the shock,pain,and sadness I feel.My brother,Ricky and I both graduated in 1976.In our lives we meet special people that have touched us and meant alot to us while struggling with adolescence.Biddy was my best friend in school because I was not allowed friends out of school.She was always happy and she could always make me laugh.We were blessed with her presence. Thank you God for sending her into my life.She will be dearly missed-just knowing she will be with the Lord brings me peace. You are in our prayers.
Biddy Cooper a Great class mate and friend
Dear Arnold and Family, I send my Deepest Sympathy to each of you and pray that you have comfort in knowing that she is with GOD in her new heavenly home.I will always remember the great times we had in school and all the class reunions.I will miss you Biddy Cooper Miller
Dear Arnold,Robin,and
Dear Arnold,Robin,and Tyiesha,
As I searched my Soul for words that could comfort you at this time, I found myself reading Proverbs 31, as I reflect on the life of Darlene I have been inspired to direct you to this passage.
Please know that we are praying for and with.
May you find peace that will surpass all understanding.
Spencer and Beatrice Nichols
We will always keep in our
We will always keep in our Hearts the sweet and gentle Spirit of Darlene. We will continue to keep you in our Prayers and Darlene in our Hearts.
She will be missed and loved by our Family.
Sonny, Marian,Benny, Kevin, and Priscilla Dorsey
My heart goes out to the
My heart goes out to the family of Darlene Miller. I was a coworker of Darlenes, at CHI, and i hadn`t known her very long, but i grew to love and respect her in less than a years time. She was just that kind of person, beautiful inside and out. She gave me good advise and wise counsel, i will miss her greatly, God Bless Darlene, and Rest In Heavenly Peace, I hope to see you again one day !
Words of Sympathy
We pray the love of God enfolds you during your journey through grief.
We send you thoughts of comfort. May your heart and soul find peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Mammarella & Eckenroth Family
Arnold, Tyiesha & Family
My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in passing of Darlene. I share in your sorrow as I remember her as someone who was filled with so much Joy. I will miss her smile and how she always greeted me with "Hey Sis", and a big hug. She demonstrated how much she loved the Lord and her family in her daily walk. When I talked to her a few weeks ago she was talking about her all of her many God Children. That in itself is a testamony of what others saw in Darlene as they entrusted her with their children's spiritual growth. Please know that "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal." I know that Darlene is safe in the arms of Jesus, and I will see her again one day. I will continue to keep you in my prayers that God would give you peace & strength.
Love, Deonna Harrell & Family
Beloved Co-Worker will be sadly missed.
I have worked and laughed with Dar for 12 years. Our office will never be quite the same again. I will miss her. My deepest sympathies to her family.
Jeff Montagnoli
CHI
Reading,PA
Dear Family of Darlene's
My heartfelt condolences to your family on the loss of one of my very good friends whom I miss very much. I had the extreme pleasure of working for many years with Darlene. God Bless your family at this time. Darlene will live on in all of our hearts forever. She was a beautiful person.
I miss you Sis.
Sue Hart
My thoughts,prayers and
My thoughts,prayers and deepest sympathy go out to Darlene's family. She was a wonderful,cheerful person that always had a smile on her face. She will be deeply missed.
Arnold, Diane, Wanda and the
Arnold, Diane, Wanda
and the Miller Family,
During this time of sorrow, please know that you are loved and that God will bring you peace.
I love you all.
Jody
An Awesome Lady - Darlene
How fortunate I am to have known Darlene. Darlene's genuineness was evident in the way she talked to people, smiled, and had an overall concern for everybody she met. She was poised and professional, yet so personable. She loved life, God, her husband, daughter, her precious grandkids. Family was important to her. She was proud of them and loved to talk about them. I miss her already. I miss her at CHI - walking into the lunch room and saying hello, or on a nice sunny day, sitting out at the picnic tables soaking in the warmness of the sun and getting our dose of Vitamin D. Darlene was a living example of showing the love of Christ to each person she came in contact with. I'm thankful for the time I got to spend with her at CHI. She is a very special lady and she will be missed immensely. I know Darlene would want everyone to find comfort in the faith that she lived.
With deepest sympathy,
Condolence - Darlene Miller
Dear Arnold and Family,
I was very sad to hear from my Mom today about the loss of Darlene. She was a very nice lady and when I was teenager growing up in South Coatesville, she use to do my hair. I was her model when she took her boards to get her beautician's license. I remember she worked so hard in preparing for those boards and the trips to your home for her to practice on me. Afterward she treated me to lunch and gave me a better haircut.
I also remember attending your wedding with my Sister and Mom and her nickname, Biddy, which I knew how she got. I lost touch with Darlene but every now and then I would run into her and she was always so pleasant and had such a cheerful upbeat smile. She will be missed. I'm very sorry for your loss and unfortunately I won't be able to attend the memorial but your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
With Sincere Sympathy, Alisa
A Loving Mother, Wife, Sister and Sunday School teacher
Tyiesha, Arnold and family, I am DEEPLY saddened by the news of Miss Darlene's passing. I am ONE of "many" children she took under her wing at Bethany's Sunday School. She was not only our "instructor", but SHE led us to the Lord. She made us work hard; she taught us to respect our parents AND ourselves. Most importantly, she taught us SCRIPTURE and explained how it was relevant in our daily lives. (I'll always remember our "Dorney Park trips, as well!) She was ALWAYS a sweet-loving, gentle woman of God, whom I WILL sorely miss! I can remember her sweet voice always encouraging me to sing "louder"--telling me not to be afraid. Ms. Darlene encouraged me to ALWAYS do my Best and when I did, had a hug and a smile for me, even if I failed. I owe alot to her and I will miss her dearly. Tyiesha, your mother loved you and your children so deeply. Keep that love with you; for she'll always be with all of you. Love your Sunday School sister, always, Jimell Dickinson (Burgess)
My dear friend
My thoughts and prayers are with the Miller family. Biddy was a great person who was always happy and fun to be with. We had alot of fun in school and I am sure myself as well as the rest of the Class of 76 will miss her. She is out of pain and at peace now and I am sure she is watching over all of us. Thanks Biddy, for being my friend!!!! You will be missed by many.
You have my condolences...
Tyiesha (and family),
My heart saddened when I received the news that you lost your mother. I did not know her very well, but I know that she remembered that you and I were classmates. Everytime I seen her, she would smile and we would speak to one another...and I'd always ask about you. May God's peace embrace you and your family as you go through this difficult time and the years to come. Cherish the sweet memories shared and the wonderful example of Christ's love that she shared with you and those she came in contact with. Your mother had a wonderful testimony...now she is resting, peacefully.
My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you.
Dellinah Deveaux
Classmate
Arnold,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I went to school with Biddy and graduated with her 1976. She was a lovely person and a great classmate.
My friend from a time ago
Dear Tyiesha & Arnold,
I was so sadden to hear of the passing of Darlene. She was my good friend and neighbor when we lived below you in the "old School house" in Modena about 20 years ago. I hope that Tyiesha will remember my daughter, Jenny (Bourne) as you two were friends at that time. I remember your family was warm and kind and wonderful neighbors. Darlene and I would hang wash in the back yard and talk for hours. She was a remarkable person and I know will be truely missed by her family and friends.
God Bless,
Ginger (Wallace) Glassman
Condolence
I also worked with Darlene and she always made me smile. She was so incredibly caring and genuine. The office won't be the same.
Darnice Washington
Modena, PA
Darlene is sadly missed at
Darlene is sadly missed at CHI, however her presence is still felt around the office and will be for a long time.
She now has a bigger and better job to perform......"ANGEL".
Darlene's pain is over, for others the pain has just begun.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all her family and friends.
May they find comfort in knowing that Darlene is with the lord she has loved and served for so long.
Dear Miller and Cooper
Dear Miller and Cooper families,
On behalf of the Parkesburg youth of the 80's and early 90's, words cannot express what Ms. Biddy has done in our lives. There are fond memories of Sunday School, Choir and the infamous Dorney Park trips. These memories wouldn't have been possible without her. I'll never forget the Sunday school verse memorization and how everyone would want to memorize John 11:35 "Jesus wept." because it was easy. Sunday after Sunday she would tell us that we needed to memorize something harder. She would always do this in her most affectionate way. She had an amazing spirit.
As I grew up, my recent memories of here involved my grandmother, Marie "Reesie" Butcher, going to Biddy's house to get her hair dyed. Grandmom would love coming back from a new hair coloring thanks to Ms. Biddy.
In her short time on this earth she has left a legacy of a lifetime. Thank you Ms. Biddy.
Darlene (Biddy) Cooper Miller
To the family of Darlene Cooper/Miller:
My deepest sympathies to the family of Darlene. I graduated High School with Darlene in 1976. She was a fun loving person and will be sadly
missed.
Sincerely,
Vincent Thomas
Baltimore, MD
Biddy Cooper
rest in peace my friend.. I am grateful to have known you.... there are no tears or pain in heaven Priscilla Saylor Mullen
Blessing to so many people
I worked with Darlene for 14 years at CHI. She always had a way being
a blessing to many of her co-workers. She lived the word of God &
was a true inspiration. Her faith & her family kept her strong.
Darlene touched so many peoples lives in so many ways from the smile
on her face, her laughter & her giving. Without Darlene in our lives
it feels more like losing a family member instead of a co-worker.
Our lives have been enriched just by knowing Darlene & the memories
we will always have. My heart goes out to her family. God Bless.
A loss of a dear friend..
I give my condolences to the family of Ms. Darlene Cooper/Miller. Darlene was an all round wonderful person. She was always willing to help and she always had a smile on her face. Also, she always made me feel welcome when I came back to visit after I left CHI to become a stay home mom. My son loved Ms. Darlene...he was always happy to see her...they always typed on the computer together...she was great with him. She was also proud grandmother whenever I came in to visit she was always happy to praise them.... I wish god didn’t have to take such a wonderful person away from us...but I guess he had a better plan for her. I will truly miss Ms. Darlene she will always be in my heart. Rest easy Ms. Darlene...
All my love,
Dianna
My Sympathies..
My heartfelt sympathies to Dar's family. Dar was a strong and beautiful person both inside and out. Her loving and cheerful personality always brightened the office and always brought a smile to the people around her. Her words of encouragement to me when I was going through a tough time helped me get through it. Thank you Dar! You will be greatly missed.
God Bless.
Antonia
You will be missed
Darlene, you will be sadly missed. I always enjoyed your smiling face. Everytime I walked through the door at CHI you knew my name and whom I was there to see. Your appearance just lit up the room. I'm saddened that you have left us, but very happy that I had the chance to know you. My heart goes out to your family.
I am sorry for your loss,
I am sorry for your loss, your family will be in my thought's and prayers as we mourn the loss of a wonderfull loving person. I only worked with Darlene at CHI for a short time but in that amount of time she left her mark on my heart. Darlene was a beautifull elegant and loving person and she will be missed.
The Thompson's from 9 Points
Our Beautiful, Kind & Loving Darlene
Dear (cousin) Arnold, Tyiesha, Roban & Darryl,
It will be the little things that you will remember,the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter. And although it may seem hard right now,
it will be the memories of these little things that help to push
away the pain and bring the smiles back again.
The sorrow of the faithful is not that of permanent loss,
but the tender sense of sadness that comes in saying good-bye for now
to someone we love. May today's sorrow give way to the peace and
comfort of God's love.
God saw Biddy getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around her and whispered "come to me." With tearful eyes you watched her, and saw her pass away. Although you loved her dearly, you could not make her stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.
Our Sincere and Deepest Sympathy,
The Thompson's from 9 Points
Uncle Raymond & Aunt Rosie
Cindy, Retta, Chollie, Donna Lou, Angie, Nessa, Rayboy, Mike & Shell
Dear Arnold and Tylesha,
Dear Arnold and Tylesha,
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in the lost of your love one, wife and mother. Our through and prayers are with you both.
Sharan Hunt & VIctoria Johnson
With Loving Memories of Darlene Cooper-Miller
Dear Arnold & Tyiesha,
Remembering Biddy with you, the life of someone so loving and sincere.
You're in my thoughts every day Cuz. Please know how much you are loved
and how deeply your loss is felt by us.
I thought I had more time to gather my emotions before visiting Dar. I didn't want to upset you or her by falling apart.
Now I wish I would've gone to see her and cried than to regret not having the opportunity to say good-bye.
The last time I had the pleasure of Biddy's company was a birthday party where we conversed and line danced side by side. Now she's in Heaven dancing with the rest of God's Angels.
Tyiesha, Your mother was someone so special she can never be forgotten.
May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
Words cannot begin to express the feeling of loss
I had the pleasure of working with Darlene for many years. She was the face of the office, always pleasant, caring and looking out for everyone. I will miss her every time I walk through those doors. Knowing that she is in a better place will ease the pain over time.
She touched so many people in such a positive way.
My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this very difficult time.
Joyce Davis
I will miss you Darlene
I will miss you Darlene more then I can say. I was fortunate to have known you for the last 15 years and call you my friend.
My thoughts and prayers go out to her husband, daughter and beautiful grandchildren who I know she loved and adored with all her being.
My most recent visit with Darlene on Friday evening will forever remain a precious one.
May she be free from the pain she was experiencing while taking her place with the Lord and watching over her family, friend and extended CHI family.
MY BELOVED FRIEND BIDDY
IN MEMORY OF MY DEAR FRIEND BIDDY WHO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
YOU BROUGHT SO MUCH FUN AND LAUGHTER TO LIFE,WHEN I GAZE INTO THE SKY AT NIGHT, YOU WILL BE ONE OF THE BRIGHTEST STARS.....
HOPI INDIAN PRAYER
DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND WEEP
I AM NOT THERE, I DO NOT SLEEP .
I AM A THOUSAND WINDS THAT BLOW.
I AM THE DIAMOND GLINTS ON THE SNOW.
I AM THE SUNLIGHT ON RIPENED GRAIN
I AM THE GENTLE AUTUMN'S RAIN.
WHEN YOU AWAKE IN THE MORNING HUSH
I AM THE SWIFT UPLIFTING RUSH
OF QUIET BIRDS IN CIRCLED FLIGHT.
I AM THE SOFT STARS THAT SHINE AT NIGHT.
DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND CRY I AM NOT THERE I DID NOT DIE.
Dar
Our hearts go out to the family. I worked with Dar since 1995. She was truly the best person to go to for guidance on everything. She also had encouraging words and advice for you. You could talk to her about anything.
I feel for the kids as everyone that worked with her knew how dedicated she was to them and her daughter. I would see her at Brian's baseball games routing "speedy" on. She told me how much they all had a great time at Ocean City, MD this year and was looking forward to going back again.
I know that she is watching over her loved ones from above.
Biddy
My sincerest condolences to Darlene's family. She was a very special lady. No one could ever think of Biddy without smiling. She was a dear friend to all of her Octorara 1976 classmates. So sorry to hear of her loss. May God bless her family and friend with peace and happy memories.
Diane, Wanda, Taneen and
Diane, Wanda, Taneen and Families,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jodi
Dalene Miller
Diane and Wanda,
My deepest sympathies to you on your sad loss.
May God's loving arms carry you through the quiet moments,
and bring you peace during this difficult time.
Warm Regards,
June
To my Friend Biddy
Oh Biddy, I'm so sad to hear that you are gone. You will never ever be forgotten. I remember growing up with you in Parkesburg, from grade school, being in the brownies, riding the school bus together and all the way up to graduation day. You were always so very pleasant to be around and I'm sure you will be truly missed. I am so lucky to have known you and our Octorara High School reunions will not be the same without you. I always looked forward so much to seeing you there. My heart & prayers go out to your family. She was truly a delightful lady.
Sincerely,
Rosemary
God's Plan
Darlene "Biddy" to her school friends will be sadly missed.
Biddy and I went to school together starting out at the Parkesburg School on Strasburg Ave and completing school at Octorara "Class of '76". We were also in Brownies together. I remember her wonderful voice & spirit in Song & Praise.
We don't understand why God takes good people from this earth. God has a plan and He is in control. Rest in peace...you touched many lives.
Arnold, Tyiesha and Grand Children
Your faith and belief in the Lord will carry you through this, for it was God's will that called her to Him.
A good friend called me this morning and informed me of Darlene's passing over. If I had known, I would have been there to celebrate her journey into our Father's hand.
Biddy. I'll see you when I get there, God willing.
God Bless
To the family of dearest
To the family of dearest Darlene,
God Bless you always and be with you in your time of need. Darlene was a wonderful coworker, a great friend and beautiful person all the way around. We will miss her so very much. Our thoughts and prayers be with you and the memory of Darlene will never leave our hearts. God Bless you all.
I am so sorry to hear about
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of your dear loved one. The time spent with them always seems so short. Please find comfort in the promise from God that he will resurrect our loved ones, John 5:28. The bible also says that "Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves." Psalms 34:18. My prayers are with you and your family, Sandy
My deepest condolences
Tyiesha and Mr. Miller,
I was so very sorry to hear about your loss. Ms.Darlene was always kind and patient with us growing up. I will always remember her from GirlScounts as a child.
She will definitely be missed. My sincerest and heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.
I'm so shocked to hear of
I'm so shocked to hear of Darlene's passing. I worked with her years ago at Softmart. She always had a warm and graceful disposition. I ran into her several times throughout the years at Walmart, Kmart, or some other store. She would always greet me with the same sunny smile! My prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.